It’s simply not about size.
Quotes to consider:
“It’s not the size of the dog in the fight, it’s the size of the fight in the dog.” – Mark Twain
“A hug is the perfect gift; one size fits all, and nobody minds if you exchange it.” – Unknown
“You can tell the size of a man by the size of the thing that makes him mad.” – Adlai E. Stevenson